Domination
Last updated: 27 September 2026
What it is
Domination is a friendly season-long competition between Families. A server switches it on from the dashboard.
- Families: every married couple automatically leads a Family as its two Squad Leaders. There's nothing to sign up for.
- Wards: leaders can invite other members to join as Wards with
/domination recruit. The member decides: nothing happens unless they press "Join the Family". The same person can't be sent another offer until the server's cooldown has passed (set by the server, up to a week). - Switching Families: a Ward can leave with
/domination leave, or accept an offer from another Family (a "defection"), after the server's switch cooldown. - Scoring: Families earn points from their members' real activity (chatting, voice, and a little from games), with a daily limit per person. Big Families score a little less per person, so recruiting lots of quiet members doesn't win.
- Seasons: every 4 weeks the top Family wins the Domination Crown, a badge that can only be earned, never bought. Scores then reset for a new season.
- Rivalries: a Family can challenge another to a week-long head-to-head with
/domination rival. The other Family has to accept. The winner earns the Rival badge. - War reports: Liora posts a weekly, playful recap of the standings in the server's Domination channel.
- Endings: a divorce ends the couple's Family straight away, and its Wards become free agents. If a partner leaves the server for 72 hours, the partner who stayed may become a Widow or Widower until the season ends (only if the server set up those roles), and can't recruit, be recruited or remarry until then.
What's kept
| What | Why | How long |
|---|---|---|
| Your Family: name, leaders, Wards, season score and recent seasons' results | So the game works | Until the Family ends; results for the last 8 seasons |
| How many points each member added today | So the daily limit works | Reset daily; cleared each season |
| When someone was last offered a place in a Family | So nobody gets offers over and over | Up to 7 days |
| Active rivalries and the weekly report's standings | So rivalries and war reports work | A week at a time |
| Widow/Widower status | So the mourning rule works | Until the season ends |
Your control
/domination statusshows your Family;/privacy mydatashows everything./privacy forgetmeremoves you from any Family, ends one you lead, and clears the rest.- A Ward can always leave their Family.
Play fair
- Recruiting is an invitation. Don't pressure or pester people to join or switch.
- Don't farm points with alts or spam; the daily limits and size rules exist so that doesn't work anyway.
- It's a game between friends: rivalries and defections are meant to be fun, not a reason to harass anyone.